Vetting

What is Vetting

Vetting is a long-standing practice within many areas of society, including the BDSM community.

Miriam-Webster defines it as investigating (someone) thoroughly to see if they should be approved or accepted.

Some may view this as an elitist practice.  We consider it as being responsible.

For the benefit of all, everyone who is interested in attending an event that Miss RinRin’s host must first be vetted.  This has been our policy from day one, and we apply it unilaterally. Everyone must go through the same process. No exceptions.

Miss RinRin’s has a secluded organization with events that occur in a private residence.  While we are happy to be opening the home for the fun and educational benefit of others interested in exploring power exchange, along with other kinks and fetishes one may have it is only prudent that we do so judiciously.

Anyone who wishes to attend an event That Miss RinRin is hosting must first be known to us.  When someone is not known to us, vetting begins by meeting in a public setting –like a munch, class or some other public venue– and being introduced to us.  However, a quick hello and a handshake are not sufficient.

Because our objective is to maintain a safe, pleasant and positive environment, a simple introduction does not constitute vetting.  We want to get acquainted with people; have some meaningful conversation to determine if our objectives are in alignment.  The mission has a rather narrow focus.  We are not trying to be all things to all people.  As such, it is our responsibility to take the time to get to know people well enough to determine if there is a good fit between what each person is seeking and what we offer.

This process is very subjective; we know that, and we don’t apologize for it as it keeps everyone safe.