50 HUMILIATING AND EMASCULATING IDEAS FOR A SUBMISSIVE MAN

These are strictly ideas that Miss RinRin will be showing her subs/slaves/trainees and males who are interested in the blackmail program.

The list is based on three categories:

1. Cuckold (real-life scenarios)

2. Cuckold (fantasy role-playing)

3. Femdom ideas

Actual Cuckold Scenarios/Tasks

Task one:

Play the game “A Cuckold’s Delight”: Place male sub/slave/trainee in permanent chastity for a full month, (uncaged once a day to be teased briefly before taking a shower). During that month, deny him any orgasms whatsoever, (possibly also require him to wear panties under his clothing), while performing any/all household chores. The Mistress, on the other hand, is free that month to enjoy as much leisure time as possible while also experiencing as many orgasms as the Mistress wants. BUT male sub/slave/trainee’s task is not only to keep your home looking tidy, and pleasure the Mistress orally whenever the Mistress desire…there’s One more catch: in that month, he’s to set the Mistress up with a minimum of 1 Bull. If the minimum target is met, he’s uncaged at the end of the month and granted a week to use the Mistress however he pleases. If, however, he fails to set the Mistress up with a Bull or Male Dominate (for whatever reason) the game is automatically prolonged by another month.

Task two:

Tie male sub/slave/trainee to a chair in the bedroom and make him watch the Mistress and your Bull or Male Dominate have sex in the marital bed. After some intimate foreplay with French kissing, and caressing, beg your Bull or Male Dominate out loud to fuck you. The more desperate the Mistress appear to look, the more it will drive male sub/slave/trainee mad…

Task three:

Have male sub/slave/trainee lay against the headboard on the bed, as the Mistress lean against him or sit on your hands and knees in front of him. Then look into male sub/slave/trainee’s eyes and have your Bull or Male Dominate roughly fuck the Mistress doggy style so that male sub/slave/trainee can feel the power of his thrusts while looking in your eyes.

Task four:

Tie male sub/slave/trainee to a chair in the living room and disappear off to the bedroom to have sex with your Bull or Male Dominate, denying male sub/slave/trainee the privilege of watching. After some time, take a break from fucking your Bull or Male Dominate. Go out into the living room where male sub/slave/trainee’s waiting, hair a mess, makeup smeared, and have a glass of water. Say hi to your male sub/slave/trainee, walk over to him and give him a French kiss. Then, grin at him mischievously, go back to the bedroom, close the door and lock it.

Task five:

Give your Bull or Male Dominate a blowjob in a semi-public place while male sub/slave/trainee stands guard (under a bridge, in an underground car park, on a reasonably deserted beach, etc.) For the more advanced hot wives, arrange to meet your Bull or Male Dominate at the beach, and have sex on the sand at night while male sub/slave/trainee stands lookout.

Task six:

Spend time socializing with your Bull or Male Dominate for 10 to 15 minutes in the living room before any action and while everybody is still fully dressed. Perhaps put on a porn movie to set the tone a bit. While socializing, or watching the movie sitting next to your Bull or Male Dominate kissing, teasing, stroking, unbuttoning and treating him like a new boyfriend while male sub/slave/trainee watches.

Task seven:

Have male sub/slave/trainee beg your Bull or Male Dominate to fuck you. Have him beg your Bull or Male Dominate to give the Mistress what he hasn’t been able to have all these years. Demand him to say it out loud. At this stage, it’s all about humiliation. Make fun of male sub/slave/trainee’s cock and sex skills in front of your Bull or Male Dominate (“You see this…this is how a real man, with a real cock, fucks a woman, etc.”)

Task eight:

Go to a restaurant together with male sub/slave/trainee and your Bull. While waiting for the main meal, take your Bull or Male Dominate out to the car or restaurant bathroom area for a quick sex session (fucking or blowjob) then return to the table in time to enjoy your meal together. Make a point of kissing male sub/slave/trainee on the lips when the Mistress return to confuse all the waiters and other guests.

Task nine:

Take off your wedding ring and have male sub/slave/trainee take off his wedding ring, and lay them both on your stomach or chest, side by side…while your Bull or Male Dominate is fucking you. Then have your Bull or Male Dominate pull out and cum over both rings. Have male sub/slave/trainee put both his and your ring back on full of your Bull’s or Male Dominate’s cum.

Task ten:

Make a point of arranging that male sub/slave/trainee drive the Mistress and your Bull or Male Dominate around for half an hour while the Mistress and he make out in the back seat. For the more advanced hot wives, at some point, make your husband drive the Mistress and your Bull or Male Dominate to a motel while the Mistress and your Bull or Male Dominate both make out a bit in the back seat. Then, once you’ve arrived, check –in with your Bull or Male Dominate and make male sub/slave/trainee sit in the car and wait until you’re done fucking your Bull or Male Dominate in the motel, whenever that is. Alternatively, have male sub/slave/trainee drive the Mistress to your Bull’s or Male Dominate’s house for sex. Then make him wait in your Bull’s or Male Dominate’s living room while you’re taken to the bedroom to get fucked.

Task eleven:

Have your Bull or Male Dominate spend the evening at your place. Once going off to bed with male sub/slave/trainee, arrange with your Bull or Male Dominate that at 4 am, he is permitted to slip into your marital bed (awakening both the Mistress and male sub/slave/trainee), then crawl between your legs and fuck the Mistress right beside male sub/slave/trainee. For the more advanced hot wives, have male sub/slave/trainee sleep in the guest room and spend the evening in the marital bed with your Bull. When doing this, visit male sub/slave/trainee once an hour in the guest room, so that he can touch, taste and smell the sex on your body. On your last visit, request that male sub/slave/trainee wake the Mistress and your Bull or Male Dominate up with breakfast ready for the both of you.

Task twelve:

Make male sub/slave/trainee wear women’s clothing, make-up and a wig and sit watching while your Bull or Male Dominate fucks you. His task for the night is to be your Bull’s or Male Dominate’s maid, fetching drinks or snacks if necessary.

Task thirteen:

Put your husband in chastity while your Bull or Male Dominate is over and have your Bull or Male Dominate wear the key around his neck as he fucks you. For the more advanced hot wives, have your Bull or Male Dominate take the key back home with him and hold onto it until the next time he comes over. Male sub/slave/trainee stays in chastity until that next time, so it’s in male sub/slave/trainee’s best interest that that next time comes sooner rather than later.

Task fourteen:

Put your husband in chastity, tie him to a chair, and have him watch your Bull or Male Dominate fuck you. Afterward, with male sub/slave/trainee still strapped to the chair, have your Bull or Male Dominate cum all over male sub/slave/trainee’s chastity cage and cock while the Mistress watch while smiling.

Task fifteen:

Make male sub/slave/trainee go outside and clean your Bulls car, inside and out, while your Bull or Male Dominate fucks the Mistress in the marital bed. As an alternative, have male sub/slave/trainee take your Bull’s or Male Dominate’s car to the car wash and pay to have it cleaned inside and out, while your Bull or Male Dominate fucks the Mistress in the marital bed.

Task sixteen:

Have your Bull or Male Dominate bend the Mistress over his knee and beg him to give the Mistress an erotic spanking in front of male sub/slave/trainee. (I’m a very naughty girl, please spank me, daddy) Even if it hurts, let it continue for longer than you’re “comfortable” with, before finally begging your Bull or Male Dominate to fuck the Mistress to ease the stinging. (Please, I can’t take it anymore, please fuck me, please, I’m begging you) This is especially effective if male sub/slave/trainee is not permitted or encouraged to spank your bottom.

Task seventeen:

Get into a position where the Mistress can intimately kiss male sub/slave/trainee, while your Bull or Male Dominate fucks you. Keep the kissing going until your Bull or Male Dominate, or Male Dominate cums inside of you. For maximum effect, when the Mistress hear your Bull or Male Dominate is cumming, moan out loud along with him while still trying to kiss male sub/slave/trainee.

Task eighteen:

Have male sub/slave/trainee put his face inches away from your pussy while your Bull or Male Dominate fucks you, then tell him to masturbate while doing so. For the more advanced hot wives, have your Bull or Male Dominate cum in your pussy, or on your chest, if the Mistress use condoms, and have male sub/slave/trainee lick everything clean. The alternate idea is to have the Bull or Male Dominate pull out and cum on male sub/slave/trainee’s face or in his mouth.

Task nineteen:

When giving your Bull or Male Dominate a blowjob has male sub/slave/trainee sit right next to you. Alternate between intimately sucking your Bulls cock and intimately French kissing male sub/slave/trainee with some verbal teasing (Can the Mistress taste/smell his cock on my lips? Here, taste what a real man’s cock tastes like, etc.). For the advanced hot wife, after five minutes of doing the above, grab male sub/slave/trainee by the hair, and force his mouth down gently onto your Bull’s or Male Dominate’s cock ordering him to get your Bull or Male Dominate nice and hard before he fucks you.

Task twenty:

Have male sub/slave/trainee get your Bull or Male Dominate hard by giving him a blowjob. Then have your Bull or Male Dominate fuck male sub/slave/trainee up in the ass. For the more advanced hot wives, keep male sub/slave/trainee in chastity for one week before meeting up with your Bull. Remove the chastity cage when the time comes for your Bull or Male Dominate to fuck male sub/slave/trainee up in the ass. If male sub/slave/trainee ejaculates before your Bull or Male Dominate is done, that would be great, as he must endure the humiliation of having your Bull or Male Dominate continue to fuck him after he cums. If he doesn’t, and your Bull or Male Dominate cums first, then lock his cock back up in chastity without being permitted to cum. Do not release him from chastity until the next time he puts his ass up for your Bull.

Task twenty-one:

Take photos and video of male sub/slave/trainee sucking other men’s cocks and getting fucked up the ass by lots of other men, then have him put a copy of all the footage on a USB stick that the Mistress keeps securely. Tease him by threatening to show his closest friends and family all the footage if he ever steps out of line.

Task twenty-two:

Consider getting a “Queen of Spades” tattoo (or something symbolizing your love of black cock) put somewhere on your body. This will ensure male sub/slave/trainee is constantly reminded of his role as your cuckold, as well as attracting attention from any black Bulls the Mistress happen to come across…

Task twenty-three:

Convince male sub/slave/trainee to get some “cuckold” or “owned by…’ tattoo put somewhere on his body. Even if it’s something symbolic, have him make it permanent on his body to remind him that once a cuckold, always a cuckold.

Cuckold Fantasy Femdom Role-playing

Task twenty-four:

Comment on how good other men look to your Mistress and what exactly your Mistress find sexy about them. To add some spice, comment on the things your Mistress see that are bigger/better than your Mistress male sub/slave/trainee ’s (I love his big shoulders, he looks like he probably has a huge cock, he looks like he has more money than your Mistress, etc.)

Task twenty-five:

Tell male sub/slave/trainee that, lately, the men your Mistress come across at work or informally, your Mistress fantasize of as potential Bull or Male Dominates, which makes your Mistress horny. Tell him your Mistress can’t wait to have sex with other men.

Task twenty-six:

If male sub/slave/trainee has a boss or colleagues he doesn’t get along with, or even friends he becomes competitive around, tease him how your Mistress’s love to be fucked by one of those men and made to feel like their whore. Tell him your Mistress’s love for those men to tease him about it after fucking your Mistress.

Task twenty-seven:

Keep male sub/slave/trainee in a cock cage for at least two full weeks. Towards the end of the second week make a point of walking around the house naked or in sexy lingerie before your Mistress goes out to work or for a night out with your Mistress girlfriends but deny male sub/slave/trainee any sexual favors. Use this opportunity to receive oral sex, or a foot or back massage. To tease him, let male sub/slave/trainee know he’s not permitted to fuck your Mistress, but if he’s got the nerve, he’s free to call up another man to come over to fuck your Mistress while he watches.

Task twenty-eight:

For aspiring hot-wives who have not yet cuckolded their male sub/slave/trainee, buy a condom, open it and throw away the actual condom, keeping only the wrapping. Organize a night out with your Mistress girlfriends. When your Mistress come home later that evening, suggestively give male sub/slave/trainee the ripped open condom wrapping. When he looks up at your Mistress in shock and asks about it, tease him with it, letting him know your Mistress let another man have sex with your Mistress that night. Keep him guessing for as long as possible about whether your Mistress did or didn’t use the condom that evening. Unzip his trousers, and masturbate him slowly while teasing him, “Maybe I did use the condom tonight…would that make your Mistress angry, or does it secretly turn your Mistress on? Is your Mistress cock getting this hard because I’m masturbating your Mistress, or because I might have been fucked by another man tonight? etc.)

Task twenty-nine:

Another beginner idea is to set up a night with a girlfriend, which male sub/slave/trainee is aware of, but from that point on, role-play that your Mistresses going off on a date with a rich businessman, who, after taking your Mistress out for dinner, will be taking your Mistress back to his hotel to fuck. While with your Mistress girlfriend, send regular role-play text messages letting male sub/slave/trainee know how things are going “with the businessman.” (“Strong, handsome looking man…certainly looks like he knows what he wants…and tonight it’s me…”, “Just arrived at his hotel…he’s Booking a room right now. So nervous, but also so turned on…I hope your Mistresses still sure about all this…” “He just fucked your Mistress wife” …etc.).

Task thirty:

Another role-play idea is to create a cuckold scenario where your Mistress fantasize about doing as many things as possible with a Bull or Male Dominate that your Mistress would never (or not easily do) with male sub/slave/trainee. Be creative and think of all the things your Mistresses sexually ‘uncomfortable’ with or things male sub/slave/trainee hasn’t easily been able to get your Mistress to do (blowjob, receiving a facial, threesome, swallowing a load of cum, receiving anal sex, receiving a golden shower, giving a rim job, receiving a rim job, having an orgasm during intercourse if this generally doesn’t happen with male sub/slave/trainee, etc. ), and fantasize out loud about wanting to experience all these things with a Bull or Male Dominate while male sub/slave/trainee listens or watches.

Task thirty-one:

Tell one of your Mistress closer girlfriends about male sub/slave/trainee ’s sexual kinks and fantasies (cuckold/Femdom/strap-on/chastity cage, etc.), then let male sub/slave/trainee know your Mistress told her and share her reaction in detail.

Task thirty-two:

Wear an anklet as often as possible when your Mistress goes out, with or without male sub/slave/trainee and make sure male sub/slave/trainee is aware of it. Seek not only his approval but make him beg your Mistress to wear it (“So your Mistress don’t mind that other man might see the anklet and think I’m available sexually? Is that what your Mistress want? How badly does your Mistress want other men to see me as available? Why don’t your Mistress get on your Mistress' knees and beg me to put it on…”)

Task thirty-three:

Go to a club with male sub/slave/trainee, ideally one with predominantly black men and flirt openly with strangers. Let them rub your Mistress up, buy your Mistress drinks and come on to your Mistress. Agree with male sub/slave/trainee upfront how far your Mistress can go with these men (Kiss on the lips, French kissing, a hand-job, a blowjob) all while male sub/slave/trainee watches from a distance.

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Task thirty-four:

Send male sub/slave/trainee out shopping to buy your Mistress feminine articles (makeup, panties, bras, tampons,) Have him buy condoms, asking the woman behind the counter whether they have “extra small” condoms in stock.

Task thirty-five:

Make him wear female deodorant and perfume.

Task thirty-six:

Feminize his name or come up with a cute ‘girly’ name to call him and use it regularly.

Task thirty-seven:

When eating out, choose his meals for him, and be the one to give the waiter the order.

Task thirty-eight:

Have him paint your toenails and then have him brush his own.

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Task thirty-nine:

Insist that he sit down when using the toilet to pee.

Task forty:

Make him carry your handbag occasionally in public.

Task forty-one:

Invite your friends over for a drink and have male sub/slave/trainee serve all your friends. Tease him while doing so: “be a good little male sub/slave/trainee and make us a drink. – Good boy…”

Task forty-two:

Make him kneel in front of your Mistress regularly to beg for something (to let him out his chastity cage, to give your Mistress oral sex, to massage your feet, to get any sexual favors, etc.).

Task forty-three:

Have him by his own lingerie set (bra, panties, and stockings) and make him wear it regularly while pleasuring you, fucking him with a strap-on, or while watching your Mistress masturbate. Verbally tease him while doing any of the above (“You may be my male sub/slave/trainee, but your Mistress can hardly call yourself a real man, can you? I mean, look at you… Don’t your Mistress think a woman needs a real man? etc.)

Task forty-four:

Have him completely shave his legs and pubic hairs at least once of month. While clean shaven, have him rub his legs and pubic area in with a female body lotion whenever it’s ‘play time.’

Task forty-five:

Keeping the house neat and tidy must be part of his daily routine

Task forty-six:

Have male sub/slave/trainee pick one of your sexy lingerie sets out for your Mistress before a night out with your girlfriends. Remark what a shame it would be if no other men were to enjoy the look of it on your Mistress that night. Ask him if he agrees and whether he encourages your Mistress to flirt openly with other men while out with the girlfriends.

Task forty-seven:

Give him a minimum of 10 strokes with a paddle or cane every month and connect it to things in his behavior the past month that could be improved upon. Start immediately with solid strokes that are felt. Light strokes are not taken seriously at all. Do not be afraid to end it with 3 or 4 extremely hard strokes. He needs to feel bright and unmistakable pain at your hands. Then soothe him by gently rubbing his ass while he repeats what parts of his behavior he intends to improve upon the following month.

Task forty-eight:

For at least one week each month, whenever he cums, have him lick up his cum. Whether it be after masturbating by himself, cumming inside you, or on top of you. Forbid the use of any towels or cleaning tissues. This will train him to remain submissive, even after he cums, reminding him that your Mistress calls the shots, even after his orgasm, which goes against his natural male instincts. This must become a routine.

Task forty-nine:

Fuck his ass with a strap-on while he masturbates. Order him to cum within ten minutes. Set a timer. If he fails, he doesn’t get to cum that evening. Whether he fails or succeeds, have him follow it up by giving your Mistress oral sex.

Task fifty:

Have him make a mold of his penis (search “clone a willy” in Google). Once established, have him give it a long, intricate blowjob. Then fuck his ass with it before fucking his ass with your biggest dildo. Ask him whether he feels the difference between his smaller cock and a real man’s cock.

Above is a list created from a sub and his Mistress. I have not created the original article that can be found here http://femdoming.com/lifestyle/femdom-tips/50-humiliating-and-emasculating-ideas-submissive-man/ I just modified it to fit my likes and needs.