True Accounts

True Accounts: Things to consider coming out as a “Little.” (A must read for those who so much as show their face on social media sites).

Someone once asked the question “It’s a bedroom kink and even if it doesn’t include any sex, why is it so important for you to come out as an adult baby? You should enjoy it in the comfort of your own home, as you don’t see other ‘fetishes’ doing things out of their bedroom. I’ll never understand why someone would ever do that.”

***Breathes slowly, takes a sip of coffee and proceeds to keep it 100%***

OK, I’m ready.

Before I get started, let me first say that keep in mind once you open your mouth, there’s no way to take it all back. Once you post that first facial picture (ESPECIALLY to social media sites), they become part of Internet history.

Even if you take down every picture, you don’t know who has screenshot it, saved it to a computer or even worse, it goes viral. Some family and friends (if you’re lucky, not all, as those who REALLY love you will be left behind), *WILL* write you off, even if you’re part of the same post through a mutual friend on Facebook.

Anyone who knows about you in person (if you are crazy enough to come out on Facebook like I did), will now look at you like they’re trying to picture you dressed as a baby, regardless if they love you or not. Some people will absolutely think you are crazy, especially if you enjoy using diapers for their intended purpose, worse if it’s sexual, made worse if you lie about it and get caught (referring to a situation I saw with a very popular little, but I will leave it at that).

The worst of everything being: You could lose your job, especially if you work with or around children. We’re not illegal but we’re not completely understood ether and I can’t blame a company for not wanting to put up with unwanted attention, the point of a business being to draw, not repel.

Last, you WILL have to face yourself, you will ask “why” many, many times and you will beat yourself in the head with no such luck of finding a real answer, having only two options, ether become comfortable in your own skin despite everything or possibly die due to depression related issues. Being an adult baby can be a very lonely life when you hidden, but to lose more than half of the people who associate with you, can be a very eye opening experience, regardless of being a nice person, which just means you won’t lose *everyone*, hopefully.

If you ARE out, don’t be a complete ASS about it ether. People respect those who respect themselves AND they’re more likely you give you a chance to educate them than drive them off. If they’re going to be a troll about it anyway, ignore them. People can only get under your skill, if you show that it does.

If you want direct and honest answer on why I want to be “free”, I’ve thought about that question for many years and I still don’t know why. All I can tell you is that from personal experience, being lonely (originally) and being desperate keeps you from being in your right mind, especially if you don’t have anyone to talk to, helping you cope through irrational feelings.

I don’t know where I ever got the idea of adult baby being a lifestyle, but I can tell you what my idea of it is.

Diapers:

Let’s start off with talking about my want to wear diapers. I have Crohn’s Disease which is an inflammitory bowel disease, which basically boils down to having massive cramps from eating certain foods. Post bowel section surgery, I don’t have the massive pain anymore, but I’m stuck feeling like I need to poop with a stomach full of diarrhea, and at the very least when it’s not as bad, I still feel like I could only hold it for a short time.

Getting to the point, I understand what it means to wear diapers 24/7, but at least you can still make it to work while adjusting your time schedule around it. Some days I spend up to five or six hours in the bathroom, which has been recently shorting by wearing diapers. Me being an adult baby of course, not being that big of a deal for me other than the pros and cons and even then, I STILL have to put up with the non-stop cramping.

If I didn’t have a reason for diapers making my life just a bit easier with being able to leave my bathroom, then I don’t know if I’d wear 24/7 and even if I did, it would most likely only be for peeing. Currently I take Nullo and it cuts my smell down to a small fart and even then, you have to be literally hugging me to smell anything. I couldn’t imagine faking bowel incontinence, because I know I wouldn’t want someone sitting next to me in a restaurant with a diaper full of poop and I have to smell that while I’m eating, that’s not a dick thing to say to those who do, as much as it’s just me being respectful.

Baby Clothes:

This one is pretty easy in the since anything that shows a good amount of skin, is probably not a good idea, such as just in a diaper and onesie or just in a shirt and diaper. That’s fine at home, but when I’m out, the most I may wear is some very babyish looking shortalls, overalls or maybe even a nice playsuit, but nothing that overly screams “BABY” with too many decals and such. I would absolutely wear clothing with noticeable snaps in them and my diapers big enough for someone not having to do much to put two and two together.

Etiquette:

I believe in not disrupting the general public. I might look like a conservatively dressed one year old, but I wouldn’t baby talk unless a quick joke or such. If I have on my diaper and baby-ish clothing, I don’t feel the need to go beyond that, so I act like myself (with a “tick” here and there, as quick laughable humiliation is fine). I’ve found that if you represent yourself well, no one really even notices to be honest. As big as ABDL has become, not everyone has heard of us and there’s some that never will.

Home:

I’m a six month old with adult-like abilities. I’m a baby in between doing ALL adult things, but concentrating more on the tasks at hand. I’m dressed up, padded and in my case, I’m part of an AB family, which means I have an “audience” that constantly sees me as a baby, so there’s that reinforcement, even when not doing anything ABDL wise.

Last but not least, Humiliation:

I think humiliation is fine, as long as it doesn’t cause any trouble to the point of annoying or disturbing others, ultimately thinking what we do is a problem.

In short (after such a long post), I don’t know y’all situation, friends or family, but what I can tell you for sure, is that being an “out” adult baby is a MAJOR step and a life changing one at that. No one is going to baby you, just because you identify as a baby and no one will look at you as such ether, so it’s going from one lonely extreme to the next, if you end up with no one at all.

If you are self-sustained where such a life won’t hinder your very existence, you have a very healthy balance between your adult and baby sides and you have friends that will stand by you no matter what, then you are blessed because not everyone has that luxury, so I’ve decided to be responsible with mine.

These are my personal experiences and opinions on the subject. If you agree with this, give it a like and a reblog. It just might help a little make a better informed decision, keeping him or her from making a hasty move, not thinking about the long term problems that may occur in the future.

Lamby Dragon